Another thing be on the road for a while does to make you laid back is it lessens your concern about personal hygiene. We’ve all pretty much gotten used to showering on a weekly, or (on a good week) bi-weekly basis out of necessity, but now it’s finally gotten to the point where I’m less self-conscious about how grimy I am. Practically everyone I’ve spoken doesn’t seem to notice or care.
Once you get past that, it becomes easier to interact with strangers for a whole host of other reasons. There’s such a thing as going too far out of your way to try to make people like you. Obviously being polite and amicable is an unambiguous good, but acting out of a fear of being disliked is kind of silly, particularly when you’re dealing with perfect strangers who you’ll probably never see again. And just like I’ve found myself becoming less concerned with whether or not I seem clean to the strangers.
The ability to relinquish the teeth-grinding, all-pervasive self-consciousness that going to school at the unbearably hip New York University has inspired is liberating. I’m starting to understand and sympathize with the hippie zen of some of the folks we interacted with in Asheville, North Carolina. I actually bought my first-ever pair of sandals in Asheville.
A roadtrip of this size has to change you in some way, or you’re not going to be able to do it. Our giant hippie bus is never, ever going to seem commonplace anywhere. The lesson I’ve learnded is stop trying and stop worrying about it. Some peole think we’re cool. Their disapproval doesn’t affect us anyway.






